>>39081195
>Every song invokes feels that only get stronger when you listen to them again.
A frightening prospect, but one that I'll absolutely examine. Much appreciated.
Just a general word of warning to you all about relationships, and especially when the idea of an engagement is even jokingly tossed around.
- Make sure you know, truly know who and what you will be dealing with. Look at the worst aspects and ask yourself could you handle a lifetime where this behavior could reappear?
- Don't ever, ever be shy to voice a concern about your SO to them. Sure, you can be however blunt or succinct as feels appropriate for the person/situation, but never, ever let it pass you by.
Hate to sound so down, but at least articulating some of this on here is better than a million more destructive things I could be doing to myself right now. Ah well, time for some more tea and music.