kids don't come potty trainned, that is why you teach them to do it.
they scream bloody murder when their hungry,thrusty or poo'd it self or in a disressing situations or just plain over tired (not enough sleep) like 99% of the time.
when the baby screen just shove a bottle of milk in that cake hole
and hush it clamly and rocking the baby and tell them how much you love the baby.
money is fucking nothing in the first world the goverment is there for a reason at any rate your'll likley have to down grade a job to look after the kids too as one parent can't do it alone (aka stress)
If that doesn't work then the father has to work longer and find a better paying job.
kid pays for it self in the long run.
remember the tax company pays YOPU the Tax dosh to keep the kid because it helps the goverment get another tax payer down the line.
(hence is why tax exists)>you still end up arguing with emotionally
false you find a middle ground and force your self to agree.
You need clam when you have a kid.
because guess what that kid can read your emtions like a book and will cry when you are distressed and upsett the kid cries so that other people come to your aid when you can't do the job.
and taking a break is why you work.
its why males are males kiddo.