Short and skinny is a great start, it means that even if your jaw doesn't pass, you're not going to be obvious as a dude from fifty paces, avoiding a lot of the issues with normies.
Cons are also a great place to debut as a brolita, there are always a lot of guys crossplaying so it doesn't seem out of place.>>9447072
Your reasons for liking lolita sound similar to mine. Lolita definitely has a lot of detail and releases and history to get autistically obsessed about if that's your thing.>>9447195>I also avoid pink and juvenile themes (nursery etc) because of the sissy/ageplay connotations. Also, if you mention/lie that you have a girlfriend your comm will be less suspicious of you.
this is true, but if they find out you're lying it looks really suspicious. Better to just not bring it up than to lie outright, if you're single but have had girlfriends before you could mention them in a casual way (not in a "my crazy ex!" sort of way, just like "Oh, your mom's doing the city marathon? My last girlfriend did that last year!" or something like that).>>9447195>avoid OPs until you know what you're doing
Definitely true for AP's underbust OP cuts but overall I think the silhouette of long-sleeved OPs that hit at the natural waist from other brands is much less juvenile than a JSK and blouse, which end up looking like a kid's pinafore uniform. Definitely avoid OPs peter pan collars or cuts like pic related as a though or you'll end up looking like Grayson Perry.