I wear lolita every day barring social standards that might need to be met that day or if im literally only leaving the house to get food
I cant be bothered to take a picture every single day and even with somewhat over 30 dresses its going to be a lot of repeated coords which will get boring for everyone.
I just take pictures when its a new coord or im actually doing something special. Other than that I do crochet and love to read but thats about as feminine as I get. I dont like tea or coffee and I dont think lolitas have to be polite or reserved although I tend to be more out of social anxiety than the thought of "Im a lolita"
I think the only thing now that makes you a lifestyle lolita is simply if you treat the fashion as your normal wear.